Books

CRAZY LOVE
The New York Times bestselling memoir of abusive love - available everywhere
MOMMY WARS
26 stay-at-home and career moms face off on their choices, their lives, and their families.
ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP WARNING SIGNS
(from Dr. Phil Show)
- History of past battering
- Threats of violence
- Breaking items in anger
- Use of force during arguments
- Unreasonable jealousy
- Controlling behavior
- Over-involvement in the relationship
- Verbal abuse/​blaming others for problems
- Cruelty to children/​animals
- Abrupt mood changes

WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE BEING ABUSED
- Call the police
- Avoid becoming isolated
- Confide in someone
- Fight the shame; no one deserves to make you afraid
- Keep a record (including pictures) in a safe place
- Develop an emergency safety plan -- keep spare keys, money and clothes in a safe place, and know where you can go in the middle of the night
- Consider ending the relationship as soon you can

The Crazy Love Project

Shared Stories of Surviving Domestic Abuse

Bruises On My Wedding Day

January 25, 2010

I read your book in two days. As I turned each page, I knew what was next. I feel like I wrote your book.

The similarities were uncanny. The poor cat he made me give away, the refusal to acknowledge what he had done,the gun to my head,the red marks around my (more…)

A Batterer's Story

January 11, 2010

I am 25 years old.

I am writing this to you with much difficulty because I really don't admit when I have been wrong.

But I just have to tell you my story. (more…)

If I Had Known Then

January 11, 2010

I was married to an abusive man for 25 years. I have 3 children and that made leaving difficult. Not that I didn’t try several times.

Unlike Conor, my husband would not leave our home and ultimately I did. In the process I lost access to my son for more than 10 years. I lost my (more…)

Emotional Abuse Can Beat You Too

October 27, 2009

Thank you for writing your book 'Crazy Love.' It was such a powerful read for me. I left an emotionally abusive husband last February. I did not endure the physical abuse that you did - he punched me one time and grabbed me and made physical threats when I decided to leave. But the covert emotional abuse is what beat me up over and over. (more…)

My Daughter, Left For Dead

October 18, 2009

In the early morning hours of October 14, 2006, my daughter’s car hit a tree head on at a high rate of speed after she had been pursued by her ex-husband, who in his speeding van rammed her car multiple times until it hit the tree and rolled over. He took off, leaving her for dead, not, I think, out of cowardice, but out of a desire for her to die. (more…)

People Who Do Nothing

August 4, 2009

Dear Leslie,

My story is similar, but I was in Spain up against an entire judicial system, with the American Consulate complacently watching the entire process. (more…)

OLDER WOMEN AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

July 24, 2009

I wrote this poem on June 24, 2005 two months before I left my husband at sixty-five years after forty-three years of marriage. (more…)

Pregnancy Abuse

July 22, 2009

My story is after my divorce, I was seeing someone who I had known for years, and got pregnant after three months of just casual dating and having fun. He promised me he would take good care of me and our child, would work, and would fix up my house, which I had bought six months before.

I can say things were good until I was eight months pregnant (more…)

Military Wife

July 22, 2009

I would imagine that everyday, your inbox is full of women like myself whom have read your book and can relate in some form or fashion to the words you have laid out and published in a society that desperately needed that.

I myself, like many whom have read your book, was a victim (more…)

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